1) what's your hurry?
2) you don't need to be in a relationship to be successful
3) getting married isn't like winning a race.
4) Your putting yourself through this, so if you don't like it quit doing it.
5) relationships have nothing to do with doing things right or wrong.It's mostly all luck.
6) it's a struggle for you because you're looking for one. Just beyourself and be happy with yourself and a relationship will find you.
7) quit being such a fucking moron
8) be happy with what you got, not with what you want
9) chances are life would be worse in a marrage.